We asked our community to contribute objects and stories that answer the question — "what makes you grounded?". Here is a selection of your stories.
Grounded.exe is a reflection on how Windows XP shaped my sense of home. As a child, the computer was my constant its sounds, screens, and even the little digital dog brought me comfort and calm. With time, that familiar world began to feel strange and unsettling, echoing how safety can shift as we grow. Yet even in its glitches and distortions, I still find grounding in this old digital space. Shown on an actual Windows XP system, the work recreates the environment that raised me, inviting viewers to consider how technology can hold both nostalgia and fear, and still carry us toward healing.
I came to Jozi searching for something a home, maybe. But home was never home. Even when I left home, it was to find one. For my object, I chose a polyprop bag a (Machangane) bag which is also incorporated on the paintings. Where I come from, this bag carries more than clothes- it carries memory; it carries movement; it carries stories of people who leave home and people who return. Across Africa the polyprop bag is known by many names: in Kenya- the Nigerian bag, in Zimbabwe,-the Botswana bag. Different names, same meaning- a symbol of migration, of searching, of holding everything you own, and still having space left for hope. Being Home is that search, the weight, the journey, and the quiet truth that sometimes home is not a place, it’s the act of carrying yourself through the world.
This wooden stool was bought for my elder brother on my parents' first trip to Cameroon (my father's home). He was 2 at the time. Then I used it when I was born. It has been with me all of my life. These days I sit on it when making fires in the winter, and on occasion just for the sake of it. It reminds me of family and what love and care can look like.
A42 House's inaugural, co-created exhibition, inviting young people in Johannesburg to define, explore and reclaim what home and belonging mean in a place shaped by displacement, segregation, and layered histories.







"Grounded" — A42 House, Johannesburg · 15 January 2026 – 31 July 2026
The Grounded exhibition includes Common Ground, a 'therapy' game that prompts participants to reflect on themes of Inheritance, Healing, Accountability, Home, and Being Grounded. Here are some responses to the prompt for accountability. We asked you to WRITE a letter to someone you may have made feel unwelcome. Acknowledge how you may have harmed them and reflect on how you could try to repair the harm?
I don't quite know what the cause was as it relates the matter of your birthday because you were quiet during my birthday even though you had seen friends posting etc. We’d been friends for so long and I was deeply hurt by what I read as rejection and a lack of consideration. I was unfair in how I handled it as I didn’t explain why I cut you out of my life, and merely did so. You're been reaching out to me and I've not been responding and I know that was harmful to do. I commit to reaching out to you to explain why I cut our friendship off, what I did is something I know would personally hurt me.
I didn't mean to be mean, I was having a bad day, a bad month, and really just a bad year. You did not deserve that, no one did. I hope you forgive me in this life or the next.
Transitioning from being a CA myself to be your senior, hasn't be easy at all. I know I have to be more patient and teach you the work and I feel like most days I am out of it. I don't have the necessary energy and patience that I have to give you. I believe that one way or another I have made you feel awkward or I might seem not approachable. I don't want to be a villain in anyone's story. I don't want my name to be brought up when people reflect on their journey. I want to be your sister in law, I want to help you grow but I also need grace. I am working on being the best associate for you until I leave practice